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What has helped in my recovery journey? My wife, first and foremost. My therapist close behind. My wife actually found my therapist – and he has been just what I needed. My new friends on twitter –...
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Everyone in therapy should write a post about their mommy issues, right? That’s probably part of my problem. So many of my issues seem so cliche’ – and I have always subscribed to George Carlin’s joke...
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In my session with my therapist last week, the major topic of discussion was where we were in the process – a roadmap. And this is what I came up with: At the beginning of my self-discovery (about 6...
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I had planned on writing about my “boxes” in order, but a video clip I watched today from the Dr. Drew show has changed that. The clips concentrate on the topic of sexuality and the struggle that some...
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In my “family” box you will find the following people – my mother, father, sister, nephew(s). My grandparents are probably in there too, but they are not here to deal with directly, only the bad...
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I have struggled throughout my life with what happened when I was a kid. Trying to understand what it meant and what responsibility, role, part I had in what happened. Until very recently I didn’t...
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In our conversations this past weekend, I brought up one of my favorite new things to say regarding my recovery and my self evaluation: “I choose not live in the black or in the white, but in the gray...
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Last night I gave a speech to my Toastmasters club. I made it through the speech with a confidence I never thought I would have. In fact, I started writing the speech before attending the Weekend of...
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One of the best takeaways I had from my weekend away was an understanding of how to answer a couple of questions that my therapist and wife had been driving me crazy with: “What do you want?” “What do...
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Wow, just wow, the number of stories that are coming out in the news today about cases of childhood sexual abuse. We hear today that the Citadel is now on the list. And the story at Penn State just...
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